Gateways and Arrivals

Arrival in Florida feels like one prolonged wait. Upon landing in Miami, my mom and I undertake an arduous trek to the rental cars. A four-hour drive means our entrance to the Keys comes in darkness, a journey across suburban strips and swamp and long, lonely bridges into the night. We are on a journey to celebrate my mother’s retirement, freed from city politics and social service provision after many long years at the Duluth Public Library. We’d planned a version of this trip in April 2020, but after the world intervened then, we are now free to do it well.

At the end of the bridges sits Key West, a land of tasteful bungalows and grand verandas, the whole island colored by a tropical languor, the stately repose of a retreat at the end of the road. Grey skies put it in a sense of slumber, a promise not quite fulfilled upon arrival. We are here midweek in the offseason, but the party goes on every night at Sloppy Joe’s and Captain Tony’s and a few dozen other tiki bars along its main drag. Duval Street is a Bourbon Street for middle aged white people, live guitars in every bar and beer and cocktails around every corner. A power boat race is in town this week, with souped up trucks to match; just about every man looks like he is here to fish. Here there is some risk of paradise as a commodity, a repeat soundtrack of Bob Marley and Jimmy Buffett, endless references to the drinking that will happen here. I am not here to fish. I am here to have a few drinks, but we are not exactly set on shutting down the bars, either. I am not really here to escape, but instead to take a pause that lets me write, be with the companion I’ve traveled with more than anyone.

We take up rooms at the Eden House east of the city center. The rooms themselves are tight ground floor spaces, but I am of the camp that doesn’t much care about the interior of a hotel room beyond the basics: it is a launching point to go do other things. The Eden House’s pool deck has seating for all types, and a second story veranda is the hotel’s steal, one of those venues for Southern graciousness that is too often lost from later architecture. I sit out here and write three ways at once, this post and a possible follow-up and some musings on where my fiction goes from here. This town has punched above its weight as a retreat for writers for over a century, and I can only dream to catch a hint of that inspiration.

The Hemingway House is the highlight of Key West. The 61 cats prowl about and the writing studio sits in repose, books and typewriters and trophies from a life without limits, mementos of boxing and bullfights and fishing trips and safaris far afield. Here I find some of that awe, this time at that masculinity unleashed: the women and the parties for a warrior and a thinker, a man drawn to the questions of his time and the places where the action was, his pursuit straight up to the edge and then straight over it because what other way is there to live? Here the old man met the sea, fought it at times, churned out many of his greatest hits. He produced a legacy that smashes the underlying tragedy. The cost may or may not have been inevitable but it is a reality and it does just boost the mystique.

Ernest Hemingway’s crisp clarity defined modernity, his simple precision that can lead a 21st century reader to swoon about trout fishing in the hills above Pamplona or bring a pack of Two Hearted Ale to the mouth of the Two Hearted River in Michigan. (Yes, I have done this.) Joan Didion taught herself to write by copying down his sentences, and I have taught myself to write by toying with Joan Didion’s work. Of course from certain lenses Hemingway’s life can now be judged or even canceled; artistry with prose faces some headwinds in a flattened world of AI summaries and messages dumbed down to the lowest common denominator. Moreover the Hemingway mystique can swallow the human tale beneath, the depression coursing through his work turned into some tragic heroism that satisfies a certain narrative of tortured genius. As a writer whose instincts are not all that depressive I wonder if I’m missing some key ingredient that I would prefer to never have, but I decide I can make do with that tradeoff.

The cherished home of a long-departed author underscores the permanence of words. Sure, the novel may lack the cultural power it had in Papa’s prime. But fifty years from now no one will be watching TikToks made in 2025. They will still be reading Hemingway. Putting down words creates a record, both in print and in type, that the ephemeral world of live video does not. Of course there are some snippets that will last, but the power to both capture and interpret, provide witness and critical distance, will remain all the stronger.

It would be easy to look around at the denizens of Key West and draw a harsh divide: us few, proud people of words who stand athwart the vapid party, immune to the siren call of the anomie of endless swipes. On a certain level I do believe some version of this argument: that is the point of a conviction. But there can still be pathways in for anyone, and pulling up the drawbridge to hold on to a snooty high culture isn’t going to change it. I instead prefer to own it, sit on a beach reading or writing and make it look good, share the best snippets here and there. And for anyone looking for a way in, Hemingway’s deceptively simple prose and chasing of great adventures isn’t a bad place to start.

Slowly, Key West shows more as we scrape beneath the surface. We visit Judy Blume’s bookstore, wander in search of beers and a spot on the beach beneath a soft curtain of an Australian pine’s wispy needles. Truman’s summer White House is here, and the ferry to Dry Tortugas beckons for a future visit, perhaps when the campground facilities are not shuttered thanks to a government shutdown. We tour the Audubon House, never visited by its namesake but a keystone for the preservation of Key West’s grace, a spendy preservation movement that nonetheless keeps it a step removed from sinking into the tourist trap ensnaring much of the rest of the Keys. The Conch Republic puts in the effort to maintain its independence.

After three nights on Key West, we are on the move again. This, I think, is my style of travel: a meander up an island chain, flashes of both wilderness and city, parts unknown and the center of the action. As we drive up the Keys we stop at a state park for halfhearted snorkeling, a bit of beach time, a stroll up the old railroad bridge that first knitted the islands together. Later we pause at a roadside carnival show named Robbie’s, where we feed some tarpons and see some manatees and dodge the scavenging ibises and pelicans. From there we are off through the wet lowlands and back to Miami.

In Miami the skyline glows as warmly as many of the well-toned bodies, but for all the glaze it cannot quite hide how it is paving over a swamp. On our second to last day in Florida we immerse ourselves in that swamp and shoot up the Tamiami Trail, a 1920s causeway that colonized the interior of the Everglades. Even now, it is a wild place, the kind of locale an ambitious xenophobe would set up a migrant internment camp. (Sure enough, loud signs announce the presence of Alligator Alcatraz.) South Florida’s history is a series of battles against the rising waters, a desire to tame them and cut back that thick, oppressive brush to replace it with orderly rows of palm trees. This region’s boosters sought to roust the beasts who live in these swamps and the last people who hid away in these refuges, or at least tame them into a roadside attraction.

A circuit on the Big Cypress National Preserve’s loop road is a safari through a menagerie of birds, a few dozen alligators, and a slow roll through everything from dense watery forests to reedy cypress savannas to a tangled mass of endless scrub. It contains a wildness and a secrecy that the open West cannot match, the eyes only so much good in trying to explore it. Even a short hike on a nature trail leaves a little claustrophobia, a question of what might lie around the next bend, the mosquitoes rising up and some mysterious scat marking territory in the middle of the trail.

On the way out we visit the Miccosukee, a Native tribe that battled the U.S. government beside the Seminoles and later retreated deep into the swamp to retain some independence for as long as they could. Their roadside attraction of a village is sleepy today; the expected tour guide never appears. But the camp is well-tended, the museum behind carved alligator doors tells the story well enough, and a show demonstrating how to properly tame one of their rescue gators is a window into a different world.

Out of this landscape rises Miami, one of the nation’s largest metros. Miami’s story is an updated version of a very American story, a gateway city haphazardly absorbing immigrants. It has all of this country’s greatness and all its flaws: a rush of development, a hunger for freedom and parties and sexy bodies, out with the old and in with the new. It was famed for crime and coke in past generations but is now more of a place where people instead seek to properly model their bare chests or sports bras. With its borderland status comes tension as culture remains stubborn and ties to old countries complicate the politics. (Miami is one of the very few American cities that can still reliably elect Republicans to higher office, thanks largely to the particularities of the Cuban diaspora.) The beach gives it an allure that other Sun Belt cities cannot match; its closest analogue is LA, though it is more niche than LA, lacks its cultural power beyond the Hispanic community.

Within that community, though, Miami is everything. In my travels, I’ve learned that Latin Americans aspire to Miami as much as any American city. The heart of the allure is of course in economic opportunity, in political freedom, in glitz and glamor on the beach. But old ties are hard to break, and a visit to Little Havana is an object lesson: this neighborhood is home to a court in exile and a continuation of pure Cuba, of salsa rhythms and cigars and dominoes over cafecitos. Even with a collection of people branded with Royal Caribbean stickers strolling the streets, it feels alive, something carried forward and a place where a Hispanophile can feel very much at home.

Miami is a city of gleaming beachfront towers, but it is also home to graceful Art Deco neighborhoods from an earlier era, that great triumph of American architecture serving as the perfect backdrop for this modern-day white city. Beneath the gleaming façade, color explodes, and never more so than in Wynwood, where we spend two nights. Wynwood is gentrification central just north and west of downtown, the inevitable boxy apartment blocks and trendy restaurants crowding out the bedraggled old concrete single-story homes and empty lots. I linger on these grungy old homes, wonder what stories they have told over the decades, which immigrant lives may have launched from here. Even as Wynwood changes there is an easy drift between Spanish and English here, a dance between two worlds, and I wonder how well it will hold on to its art. Miami is strongest in the places where it keeps the tension alive.

This trip is a perfect escape to celebrate a retirement, to find some well-earned rest and adventure all at once and think about what might come next. For my part, I am not sure how high Florida is on my list for a return visit. It is a land of leisure, but not one of awe, and as a pursuer of awe this easy luxury will never quite be me. I am not drawn to resorts or creature comforts, the overly sanitized or scheduled trip. Vacations should be a little bit hard, and I don’t mind a little snow, I think as the season’s first snowflakes wander down on the drive north from Minneapolis.

On the beach on Key West I read “The Snows of Kilimanjaro.” This short story was the first Hemingway piece to capture my imagination, and like all good fiction, it tells us something that we do not know that we know. “Snows” is a writer’s lament for the things he has not yet written and may never write, a call to me to get to work. It is a confession of the fumbles with women drawn in by the Hemingway-style pursuit, with Harry in the tale pushing Helen in ways that both give her new meaning and wound her, Harry at once proud of her but still questioning the whole exercise. And it closes with a drift away from even the heaviest of earthly concerns on to greater heights, to beauty, to the white snows at the end of the line. There are so many worthy goals here, so much to unpack and to reach for. And with that, I write.

Wilderness Calling

Summer draws to a close, and the days for carefree outdoors enjoyment dwindle. In the past six months I have been to Spain and the Caribbean and Colorado and Chicago, but I have neglected the more immediate opportunities. My dad tugs me into the Boundary Waters for the first time in four years, too long an absence for someone with wilderness in the backyard.

Our gateway to the BWCA comes at the Brandt Lake entry point off the north end of the Gunflint Trail. We set out with ambitions of revisiting Adams Lake, a gem deep in the interior of the BWCA; if we cannot reach that lofty goal, we will at least settle for exploring a little-traveled chain of lakes between it and better-known destination lakes like Gabimichigami and Little Saganaga. My dad tweaks his knee on day one, however, and our itinerary shortens considerably. We settle for a three-night jaunt in and out, puddle-jump over seven portages to Bat Lake, where we spend two nights before working our way back over two days, a journey of no great physical feats that instead turns to gentle release.


It has been a wet late summer in northern Minnesota. The first portage has standing water for much of its length, and the second and third are only marginally better. The fifth has developed a mid-path waterfall. The mosquitoes of legend, usually in remission by September, are still about, though tolerable. The grey skies are steady throughout our trip. The Canadian Shield has been stained black by rainfall, steady drips off overhanging cliffs into the water below. My favorite spot on the trip is Gotter Lake, a small, marshy expanse lined whose narrow points are lined by cliffs, the looming mists clinging to the walls and drifting over the grasses. We turn into the wrong arm on our way across it, but I don’t mind the extra paddle.

Some fall foreplay is emerging in the trees, first hints of the golden eruption that will strike in the coming weeks. Even across four days, we see a real difference. The nights settle into a perfect sleeping temperature. A steady procession of geese makes its way southward, their flying Vs audible long before they are visible. A flock of cranes, meanwhile, heads west. I contemplate the stray geese who do not quite get the memo about flying in formation: is it ineptitude, or rebellion? We fend off an intrepid chipmunk who darts about the site. We reach for our cameras when something emerges from our lake; from a distance it could be a moose, but it is just another canoe. I extract a leech from its feasting grounds on my foot. We watch something steadily work its way along currents on the lake against the wind. It is a leaf.

There is no boredom here, though. My dad continues to perfect the art of hammock camping, and while I stay in my trusty tent, I too set up a hammock and hang between trees to read and write and watch nights fade into darkness. This is wilderness but there are still people to liven up our days: six Brits flying the Union Jack from their lead canoe pass us on the way out and two good Samaritans take some of our gear as they double-portage in the opposite direction, sparing a second traverse of one of the longer portages on the gimpy knee. People ask about the fishing, on which we have no insight. Paddling and portaging is enough.

We grade our campsites. The site on Bat Lake is a B, with a nice sitting rock by the shore and a well-appointed kitchen and plenty of tent and hammock space. Its biggest demerit is the clear view of the latrine from the kitchen, and while it is quite likeable there is no real wow factor. Bat is not a destination lake, but it is a pleasant hideaway one portage short of better-known Gillis Lake. The site on Brandt Lake on the way out, however, is an A-plus. The kitchen sits right behind a rocky outcropping, which gives a commanding view of the lake and a place to bask in the sun or stargaze in better weather. It remains secluded, hidden from the nearest site by a protruding island, and offers a glimpse of prime moose territory in a back bay swamp. The tent pads are quality but not overused, and there are ample spots to string up a hammock for a lake view. Here the latrine is appropriately hidden, though a hint of lake is visible from a seat atop the throne.

Our conversation drifts about, from wilderness observations to retirement life to where I might travel abroad next. (Nepal? Brazil or Peru? Mount Kilimanjaro? Eastern Europe and on to Istanbul? Time will tell.) We appraise the amount of scotch we’ve brought with some disappointment at these deceptively small flasks. I read a book in the hammock and, for the first time in years, am not writing or editing the same damn short stories—one that had one installment written on a previous canoe trip—because I have made good on my promise from San Diego last November and am actually trying to do something with them.

Where that goes is of little import out here. The only demands are the most immediate, and the release from other obligations and communications and intrusive virtual worlds becomes more precious over time. Here we can just listen to what the wilderness tell us. We hear a whippoorwill, a distant white-throated sparrow; a few voices echo up the lake from the next campsite. A fish jumps, a beaver tail slaps, and the aspen leaves quake overhead. This home calls to me, even if I do not visit often enough.

The call, for whatever reason, seems deeper now, more pressing. Its immediacy has something to tell me. We make plans to try for Adams sometime again soon.

A Landscape of Yearning

Last year I wrote that I go west for new beginnings, but this year’s trip starts with a blast from the past. I start my annual venture with a diversion away from my hiking crew’s rendezvous point in Denver and head to Fort Collins, Colorado. This Front Range college town exceeds all expectation with its verdant core, a green grid with a pedestrian mall and college bars and teeming life. A good guide helps, of course: in this case it is Joe, one of my oldest friends, a connection sustained since second grade. He gives me and a few of his friends a behind-the-scenes private tour of New Belgium, a leisurely three-hour affair that goes deeper than any other brewery visit I’ve done. The night carries on from there into the morning, dinner and drinks and debate and a blending of worlds would never have otherwise mixed. And yet it is as if we have not missed any time, our interests evolving on parallel tracks into the political world and urban planning and good beer too. This is a deep cut at a time of deep feeling, one in which words do not always come easily to me as feelings surge and demand examination, but a certainty in the paths I trod only grows.

As kids, Joe and I bonded over the Civilization computer game franchise, a fond memory for several people in our Fort Collins dinner party. That game had a certain influence on my way of being: a desire to build worlds, to advance a society toward greater glory, and perhaps to leave the Babylonians in smoldering ruins. But the game has to stop here and there, and it is time for my annual escape from civilization with my usual backpacking crew, a ritual renewed.

The venture gets off to an inauspicious start. Ed, a stalwart member of our party, injures himself on the drive west and has to abandon the trip. Our planned acclimation day-hike at the Black Canyon of the Gunnison goes up in flames as a wildfire shuts down that national park. We plan to start our official hike on the Bear Creek Trail just south of Ouray, but trail maintenance has closed that, too. As we pull up to the Middle Fork trailhead instead, signage warns us that several hikers have been attacked by sheepdogs, including one party just nine days before we set out. But the show must go on. Amy, Bob, Rob, and I head for the Uncompahgre Wilderness in the San Juan Mountains, an escape even many Coloradans do not know. This, I say, is kind of the point.

West of Denver, I-70 is the scenic showpiece of the interstate highway system. I have memories etched in amber of an Amtrak venture down this corridor at age fourteen: gazing out the observation car through Glenwood Canyon, the divinity of a Palisade peach. Somewhere on these stretches, beyond the Front Range traffic and the most extreme grades at Loveland and Vail Passes, I find my western release. We cruise down an austere river valley where dusty towns watch the world fly by, a simultaneous invitation offered and challenge posed by a landscape of yearning. It calls forth, speaks of more to find. Its treasures draws in seekers, from 19th century gold to today’s powdery slopes, from conquest of fourteeners to backcountry solitude. The Western Slope is far from the cradle of familiar northern Minnesota woods, not a safe harbor but land that won’t ever quite be so well charted and is all the better for it.

The alpenglow over the Uncompahgre beckons as we swing south from Grand Junction for a night in Montrose. We summit Courthouse Peak for a warmup hike and scramble, gaze down on the field where John Wayne finished off some bad guys in the original True Grit, and enjoy the company of a fat marmot on top. We spend the next night in Ouray, a vein of gold tucked between red cliffs along the Uncompahgre River, its sloping Main Street in classic Colorado style leading up toward the Million Dollar Highway to Silverton. Here we enjoy one of our best pre-trail meals ever at Brickhouse 737, though my pasta with rabbit cannot compete with the eight-year-old at the next table who orders the hibachi smores and roasts his marshmallows over a small flame. We pack in record time in a cozy motel beside the rushing river, breathing easier after a few days at elevation. It’s time to enter the wilderness.

Oftentimes on these trips the first day is a plod to get to nicer things, but in the Uncompahgre, the beauty is immediate. The valley of the Middle Fork of the Cimmaron River, one of three long tines cutting into the northern side of the wilderness, is just wide enough to show its ramparts, a jumble of jagged peaks reaching skyward. We camp the first night atop a meeting of rushing streams, with views up the bowl to the south and down the Fork to the north. The sun bathes the valley in gold as it sets, and a faint crescent moon gives the night a touch of light. All is quiet, and I am where I want to be.

On day two we immediately climb 1,000 feet to a pass between the Middle and East Fork drainages. After we rise above the trees we are in an upward sloping glade of yellow flowers, and after a steady push we come over a pass that reveals the three greatest peaks at the heart of this wilderness: the striking Wetterhorn; the Matterhorn, reminiscent of its namesake Alp; and, to the east, a broad beast greater than all of them, Uncompahgre Peak. With eyes still turned upward at the giants around us we descend from the pass, ford an orange-tinted creek, and scramble up a lightly maintained shortcut trail to an eventual camp by some falls on the East Fork at the root of Uncompahgre. We are settled into camp before the afternoon storm rolls through.

On day three, Bob, Rob, and I set out to bag Uncompahgre Peak. We climb along the creek, up through meadows of yellow and purple and white blooms, an open country trek upward as we circle the peak from northwest to southeast, where the main approach lies. Past the looming Matterhorn, up along sudden tan sands and lingering snow, on up the rolling green ramparts beneath the gothic cathedral spires and concave couloirs of Uncompahgre’s south face. A scramble up a harsh grade begets a long, steady ramp up past pikas and yet more flowers and ground set aside for endangered butterflies. Just shy of 14,000 feet, a wall requires some scrambling, but beyond that is a steady, limited-oxygen stroll to the top. From the summit we have a 360 panorama, sun here and storms there, our arrival just in time: distant thunder rumbles, Rob’s hair on his hand perks straight up as he stands astride the peak, and a few snowflakes start to wander down. Every manner of precipitation falls on our now urgent descent: the snowflakes, some sustained graupel, sleet, a little hail, and finally the rain, which picks up in earnest as we approach camp. When we look back up at Uncompahgre, its upper reaches have a light coating of snow. As day hikes go, this is one of the best I’ve ever done, the looming storm only enhancing the conquest of the summit.

The fickle San Juans weather continues on the hike out on day four. Rain gear goes on and off all day as we descend the East Fork, a graceful vale that proceeds from high peaks to scree fields to avalanche-prone slopes of spruce to red towers reminiscent of Zion. Right at a shaky river crossing, however, comes the coup de grace: a sudden onslaught of hailstones, many as large as chickpeas, comes crashing down and sends us hustling for tree cover. After they have fallen the landscape is strewn with tiny white pellets, the walls to the east coated and glittering and the rutted path below us now a soupy mess of water and floating ice. This is not the least pleasant thing underfoot on the East Fork, however: that title goes to the cowpies, left by a lowing chorus of cattle that harmonizes as we walk by. At least we evaded the sheepdogs.

On the final evening we car camp off the Middle Fork, mission accomplished in spite of the absurd hail. Here we have the definition of Type Two Fun, a few minutes of misery that blossom into absurdist laughter and a memory that we can look back on forever, a random Friday on the first of August now immortalized, a remember when we did this, pushed out of comfort and saw a rare new beauty that will only pour gas on this blazing yearning for more of the world. The cattle go quiet and the creek rolls on and Rob and I stand out to watch the stars appear above our stand of aspen, musing on other yearnings we have.

Our two Ford Expedition rentals misbehave on the way back to Denver. The car alarm on Bob’s goes off three times in the night of our final evening, while the one I drive has the tire pressure light go on twice, growing worryingly low after dinner in Denver and prompting an early return. But it is a beautiful ride. We cruise along the Blue Mesa Reservoir, one of those manmade oases that dot the West, both a triumph over and a failure to fully tame nature. Lunch comes in Gunnison, with its bustling downtown, and we then ascend Monarch Pass back over the Continental Divide. The Arkansas River Valley and South Park would look like South Dakota but for the Collegiate Peaks and the backside of the Front Range looming over the high plain. We ascend once more, wind down the Platte Canyon, negotiate our way into Denver for the final night before heading out.

In some ways, Colorado has conquered America. The country vibe that has consumed pop culture this decade may get funneled through places like Nashville, but it has deeper roots in the cowboy west than the history-laden South. This is America as the open frontier, home to the pot-smoking libertine and the fitness-focused weekend warrior. But the frontier is over: after each weekend the chasers of peaks and slopes head back down the passes on I-70 and settle into the creature comforts of the subdivision on the outskirts, the escape to their safe retreats. Something is lost here but we don’t know quite what it is and so we yearn for it, nod to the past and chase a future. In this way, Denver and its environs may be the most American of all cities, spared the extremes of the coastal giants; as a newer city of many transplants, it lacks the particularity of other heartland metropolises, yet maintains a hold on reality absent in the likes of Las Vegas. There is a freshness and youth here, and I get the allure, an American reinvention that avoids the sterility or museumification of older societies. But while I feed off that youth, I need more than it.

My split personality gives me clues to what it misses. I crave communion, relish tapping into these ties old and new, and over the past several months a shared life has been taking shape through careful steps and weekend drives down I-35. And yet I demand solitude, reflexively rebel in contrarian ways, possess within me a deep instinct to disappear into mountains or at the very least drive off into some anonymous western town where no one knows me and where I can be something other than my staid, disciplined, ever so rational self. The constant in all these strains is a rootedness to the land, a spirituality of place that I find more and more at the core of my being, whether that is in ventures outward to new beauty or a return to the North Shore cradle that birthed my oldest friendships and more recent dreams. These landscapes tell the stories of who we are.

27

Fade as the blue nights fade.

Go back into the blue.

I myself placed her ashes in the wall.

I myself saw the cathedral doors locked at six.

I know what it is I am now experiencing.

I know what the frailty is, I know what the fear is.

The fear is not for what is lost.

What is lost is already in the wall.

What is lost is already behind the locked doors.

The fear is for what is still to be lost.

You may see nothing still to be lost.

Yet there is no day in her life on which I do not see her.

-Joan Didion, Blue Nights

Happy 27th, bro.

Spain 2025, Part IV: Against Dereliction

This is the fourth and final piece in a series that began here.

Sated on San Sebastián and ready to head the province of La Rioja, Andrew and I pick up a rental Cupra, which is Spain’s effort at a sporty car. We roll down a winding Basque tollway and up into the Cantabrian Mountains, where we seek out the Salto del Nervión. In wet times this is the highest waterfall in Spain, but today, it is just a pretty cliff. We chat with two older ladies who are taking a new car for a spin and get some sense of how it should look. The forests are lush, the karst formations jarring, and a few toros wander on to the road. We are back in rural Spain.

The number of elderly people who get out for this several-mile hike is a statement on Spanish superiority. The life expectancy in this country is 84, between second and sixth in the world depending on the source and inclusion of micro-states, even though booze consumption per capita is not low and smoking remains more ubiquitous than it is across the pond. The culprits would appear to include a lot of walking, a lot of olive oil, and a densely knit lifestyle that keeps people enmeshed in social networks long into old age. On the streets of Briones, the small town where we spend the next two nights, the average age appears to be about 70. But everyone is still shuffling about in their little friend groups, gathering on squares, no one warehoused away or struggling much beyond the inevitable physical toll. Almost no one is overweight, and the drinking seems like a steady social activity instead of a lonely or perpetual rush to blackout. There is an art to living well to a ripe old age here, and it comes not through self-denial but through keeping everything in its place.

Speaking of old, the Monasterio de San Millán qualifies: the twin monasteries of Suso and Yuso date to the sixth century, and we stop by Yuso, which is open for tours. The first recorded writing of Spanish (and of Basque) took place here, an attempt by a monk to bridge the Latin of the church and the vulgar Latin of a Visigoth-ruled Iberia around the year 1000. It is also home to one of the few complete sets of giant books of Gregorian chants for each day of the year, all stashed in a specially built chamber to control their humidity. Yuso’s 11 remaining Augustinians honor San Millán, a hero from that area who, like St. James along the nearby Camino de Santiago, got drafted into slaying some Moors on behalf of the Reconquista. A few pilgrims have made the side trip up here, including a Spaniard who started in Barcelona and a couple from Iowa City for whom we translate the tour. I feel the pull to don a pack and start walking.

As it is, however, driving around Rioja is a beautiful way to spend a few days. Roads swing their way around ridges and vineyards, a view off to the next hilltop town or castle always somewhere in sight. Clouds hang over the mountains to the north, much closer in person than they appear on a map, and the valley of the Ebro River drinks in the sunlight that filters through them. Briones, where we stay at a restored old stone manor named Santa Maria Briones, is a quiet hilltop town that feels frozen in a different era. Once upon a time it was an outpost in competition with the even larger castle across the Ebro in San Vicente de la Sonsierra, a contested zone between the kingdoms of Castile and Navarre. Now, it feels about as far from war as a place can be, basking in wine country sun as the bell on the great old church tolls out the quarter hours and its residents shuffle into their later days.

We are of course in Rioja to drink wine. We schedule three tastings, and the two on day one are contrasts in the scale available here. First we visit Miguel Merino, a small producer that we can walk to in Briones, where it’s just us and Lorena, one of the five people employed by this operation founded by an exporter and carried on by his son, relying on small batches and doing some experimentation as they get into many Michelin-starred restaurants. Later, we tour the Marqués de Riscal, an industrial-scale pillar of Rioja complete with a Frank Gehry hotel reminiscent of the Guggenheim, with a dash of wine purple added to the color palette here. The place is massive, a winemaking machine in full force, though the Marquis himself still sits in a corner with some friends sampling the product. Up in Haro, one of the larger towns in the region, we stroll past some of the other big Rioja names in its neighborhood of bodegas and do lunch on a convenient patio at Muga.

Our two nights here, meanwhile, are a marked contrast. On the first we eat at Allegar, the restaurant at Santa Maria Briones. Seventeen small plates come out through the course of the tasting menu, each with a major element from Rioja itself, along with wines to match. The three-hour tour is a culinary peak of a trip of nonstop great food. The next night, Andrew, a diehard fan of Tottenham Hotspur, must find a spot where we can watch Spurs’ Europa League final against Manchester United in Bilbao. We wind up in an Haro sports bar surrounded by large, booze-fueled Spanish men. They approve of our allegiances (“fook Mahnchesta”) and provide some high-fives when Spurs, one spot above relegation from the Premier League, improbably hold off United in a fairly disgusting soccer game. The aesthetics do not matter to Andrew, who is giddy, and I am amused as we watch Spanish sports talk into the night.

We have one final wine tasting on our way south back toward Madrid. When we pull up in the town of Sojuela, I’m worried I’ve made a mistake: the address for the Ojuel winery takes us to an unmarked door on a nondescript house in a town much further off the beaten path than Briones; the website is down and the phone number we have doesn’t work. But an ancient lady calls down to us from the upper floor and says someone is on her way, and before long Mila, the daughter-in-law of our greeter and the mother of the winemaker, is taking us on what is, by several orders of magnitude, the most memorable wine tasting tour I’ve ever had.

Mila takes us in her car up to a vineyard. This is an all-natural, all-organic operation, and all Ojuel bottles feature a different butterfly in honor of these pollinators. The contrast with the neighboring field is striking, these gnarled smaller vines with weeds tangled around their bases separated by a wall of vegetation from the monoculture beyond. (Grapes from the first few rows are sold to other winemakers who don’t care as much about purity, lest any pesticides have drifted in.) This plot’s history is deep, as a stone set here traces its owners back for generations and lists the varietals grown here, though two of the nine are not listed because they have been effectively lost to time. We learn of how Mila’s son Miguel did some oral history work, pulling out old wives’ tales of the supurao wine made for holidays and special celebrations in the youths of some village elders, and reproducing their methods by hanging grapes to dry to produce that rare beast, a delicious sweet wine.

For the tasting, Mila throws a few bottles in a tin pail and takes us on a walk to a couple tiny old bodegas dug into the hill, a gathering place where locals would create their own stocks back before mass commercialization, where people would gather for a few drinks in the climate-controlled holes slowly dug out with pickaxes. Those not associated with Ojuel are now rotting away, but these have been lovingly restored and put to use aging barrels. Ojuel rebels against the Rioja control board, experimenting with new things; at one point, Mila pulls out a turkey baster and dips it into a barrel so she can draw out some wine and offer it to us. This is deep winemaking, pulling on old tradition in ways that can now feel radical, experimentation and rejuvenation and daring to let things be different. Long live the Ojuels of the wine world, in firm revolt against the unthinking present and the decay of rural Spain.

After Ojuel, it is time to return to Madrid. Our Spanish road trip is smooth sailing, packing a lot into a few hours. Just south of Sojuela the N-111 winds along red cliffs dotted with green reminiscent of the American Southwest; soon, it climbs up a long cut through the Sierra de Cebollera, where spring is still in its earliest stages. We descend to the plain, try to figure out how the city of Soria functions when every single road is under construction, and then cruise easily across Castilla y León and Castilla-La Mancha, that rolling open green country that could have been dropped in from the Great Plains. Spanish highway etiquette is immaculate, everyone weaving in and out of appropriate lanes based on their speeds. Over four days of driving Google Maps has the occasional misfire where it sends us down some very sleepy, bumpy back lane and the narrowing of streets through town centers is at times harrowing, but all in all I enjoy my time behind the wheel in Spain.

Andrew and I get to do a circuit of central Madrid together and share one final meal before my very early flight out the next morning. Unfortunately this is where I hit the wall, so I do not have my reflections in good order that evening, but it has been a joy to take this trip with Andrew. We survived a two-week road trip together as we both shifted between phases of life in 2016, and we are able to jump back in and seamlessly do it again now that we have attained some modicum of professional stability. Of course sharing tight European lodging with even a good friend for ten days will reveal some neuroses and see us both cycle through moments when exhaustion or annoyance catches up with us, but we share a commitment to the pace, a hunger to eat and drink it all up in short order, and that can power us both through anything that might drag us down.

We are a funny pair here, more capable in Spanish than the vast majority of tourists, one who could pass for a German and speaks like a Mexican alongside a half-Filipino who speaks like an Argentine, and I am amused by how often we confuse people. At Ojuel, Mila tells us Americans are the best tourists they get, respectful and curious about experimentation and eager to spread the word to their friends. It is not hard to juxtapose us against the loud, boozy British who make no effort to speak Spanish and the famously insular French. The Spanish resignation to bad tourists is at its worst in San Sebastián, where some waitstaff continue to talk to us in awful English even when we demonstrate some Spanish capability, but when we show that clichéd American enthusiasm for taking stabs at new things in Rioja, the people we meet are delighted. Of course the American tourists who get to second-tier European destinations clutching Rick Steves guidebooks and lists of Michelin-recognized restaurants are unlikely to be of the same demographic as those who go to Gulf Shores for spring break; this filtering is not present among the British, for whom Spain can be a quick weekend jaunt. But I do think there is something uniquely fetching in an American hunger to absorb the European deep histories and cultures that our imperial reality so often buries.

I am on that nonstop search on this trip even though I don’t think I am ever quite at one hundred percent. I develop a gross nagging cough early on, while my back does not seem to like the backpack I wear; bad sleep, a sporadic but lifelong scourge of mine, returns at times. For a second straight trip I make a dumb mistake with my writing tablet, this time losing its stylus (replacement cost: a disgusting $150) on the first plane flight. Because of that I never hit the reflective rhythm I aspire to, don’t have my thoughts organized the way I should when Andrew the lawyer probes me about our trip or our world beyond us. I worry I am too much a chameleon, am not reflecting as thoroughly as I should on recent developments in work and in the personal sphere, am only barely scratching a few deep yearnings I find welling up within.

But that is alright. These annoyances show I know I have work to do, and I will do it at whatever pace I can. For now, I can smile easily as I think of two weeks well-lived, of a drift down Spanish streets, of good art and good food, a drive up the coast and a sip of special wine. A hearty gracias (and an eskerrik asko) to this country I have come to love, though after three straight years it is probably time to try somewhere new next. We have so much to explore.

Spain 2025, Part III: La Boca del Cielo

This is the third in a four-part series that began here.

The list of cities on earth whose setting can compete with San Sebastián, Spain, is a short one. Called Donostia by the Basques, its centerpiece is La Concha, a shell-shaped bay wrapped by a beach for nearly its entire length. The Parte Vieja (old town) wedges between the western end of La Concha and the broad Urumea River, and the grand shopping avenues strike out south from it. Three sentinels stand watch over the harbor: a Rio-reminiscent statue of Jesus on Monte Urgull above the Parte Vieja, a tower atop the highest point at Monte Igeldo at the other end of the mouth, and the striking island of Santa Klara between them. Miramar, a Tudor manor home built by the Spanish royals, sits upon the one interruption in the beach, and the city rises up gracefully into the Basque hills as it recedes from the water.

San Sebastián is too pretty not to have been discovered. It may not yet be on the level of the French Riviera or some of its Italian counterparts, but it is a city filled with beautiful people being beautiful, of large crowds and moments when one will find oneself surrounded by people speaking French and German and English. But I am a sucker for it, unapologetic for my basic tastes: incredible food scene, stunning scenery, and a stellar beach, an urban ballet that becomes an easy party into the night, that Spanish triumph of life done right.

Andrew and I stay in a hotel tucked just beneath Monte Urgull and just off the water, alongside a staircase up the Monte that becomes a party scene every night. The room is cramped and unremarkable, but the setting is on point. Just stepping out of it is immersion in the Spanish street scene, the crowd already building as others wander down to the waterfront, basking in the haze over La Concha as the sun sets behind Monte Igeldo. Here the pintxos crawl goes from an idle stroll to full-fledged fiesta, thousands from around the world seeking out the delicacies tucked into tiny storefronts, lines building where the most famed chefs produce the hallmarks of Basque cuisine alongside their own experimental takes. It is a culinary paradise.

On the first night we do a classic San Sebastián pintxos tour. We start at Ganbara, which Anthony Bourdain called “my favorite place,” and slurp down monkfish, foie, shrimp, crab, and croquetas that melt in the mouth. Despite a massive crowd it is a well-oiled machine, a carefully tended line down the street invited to tables, and there is no rush once seated (or stood, I suppose, as we are at a table on the street). The same cannot be said for several places we try afterward, which are a Lord of the Flies competition for counter space or seats, and in the end we are relieved simply to let a waiter guide us to a table on Konstitizio Plaza, even if the fare is nothing memorable. At some point in the night everyone heeds a silent summons to a place that churns out cheesecake by the boatload, and while it can’t match Casa Rufo it is satisfying, and for a nightcap we sample the local macrobrew, Keler, which is bad.

The next day is San Sebastián in an ideal state. We walk the length of La Concha’s beaches and ride the funicular up Monte Igeldo, an overlook plus amusement park that includes a “rio misterioso” (a lazy river that seems precariously close to the edge of the cliff). We befriend the keeper of the tower at the very top of the mountain, perhaps because we, unlike the Brits in line in front of us, understand that, when she says “tunel” and makes a tunnel with her hands, she is trying to convey the word “tunnel.” We ask her why Monte Igeldo’s puttering roller coaster, which would normally be called a montaña rusa (literally, Russian Mountain) in Spanish, is called a montaña suiza (Swiss Mountain) and she explains this was a Franco era maneuver to avoid any hint of communism and suggest as much neutrality as possible. She rants about Trump at us for a while but drifts into sadness that her own daughters haven’t given her more than one grandchild, a commentary on that we do not have time to unpack before the next tourists come to request their tickets.

The guardian of the tower on Monte Igeldo is not off the mark. Spain’s birth rate has plummeted to 1.1, nearly half the rate a population needs to stay even. Even with increasing immigration, that trend plus long life expectancies could leave the nation with a financially terrifying ratio of 1.5 workers per retiree by midcentury and a whopping 33% population drop by 2100. The below replacement birth rate is now a reality across the entire developed world excepting Israel, though it is particularly acute in Spain. (Neighboring France, meanwhile, is keeping pace with the somewhat more stable United States.) One could speculate that societal change has been particularly impactful in countries with the longest histories of harsh gender divides and machismo (see Spain’s companions at the bottom of the birth rate list such as Italy, South Korea, and Japan), but it is only a matter of degree; whatever the cause of this digital era birth plunge, the trend is real, and only just now starting to alter Spanish life.

There are so many things I adore about Spanish culture that it is somewhat haunting to think about this looming collapse, a concern that all these lovely and sustainable Spanish lifestyle choices are caught up in a culture that is choosing, either intentionally or through happenstance, not to sustain its very own self. The Madrids and San Sebastiáns of Spain will likely get by just fine thanks to in-migration, though they will have to fight that very European fight to avoid becoming total museums or tourist playgrounds. But things are different in the older towns and dusty cities in the center of the country, which I have come to know both on this trip and on my Camino across Galicia last year.

My lifetime may see the diminishment and even death of many pockets of Spanish culture, of some of these funny little cultural quirks that make this country so easy to visit again and again. But unlike American boomtowns, which are rarely built to last, the stone walls of Spanish towns ensure a very old history will fade very slowly. Historical memory runs deeper, faces a proportionately deeper loss, and it should bring out deeper fixations. Even in an era of Trump unleashed, successful navigation of reality does not come in day-to-day headlines or a doom loop of algorithmic content, but instead in finding ways to live in deeper touch with both the past and the future.

Achieving that state is easy to do among the attractive humans on display on La Concha beach this afternoon. After catching some sun we spend the evening in Gros, which is across the Urumea River from the Parte Vieja. This is an updated version of San Sebastián as a beach town, its apartment blocks well-built but modern, its beach dominated by locals with genuine surfing and volleyball skill. We have beers at Basqueland Brewing, pintxos at a good wine bar, and dinner at a Basque-Mexican fusion place, all of which deliver. Tonight’s nightcap comes on the steps of the Santa Maria basilica amid the crowd of revelers, easy laughter across a mix of tongues, and never am I more relaxed on this trip than on those steps beneath that gothic facade with a whisper of change flowing in on a cool breeze off the Cantabrian Sea.

Day three reveals a different San Sebastián. Gone is the riviera feel: suddenly it is a moody seaside town from the Pacific Northwest. We venture out in a light drizzle and climb through the pines on Monte Urgull to a fortress atop the harbor, ramparts and cannons left behind by Napoleon’s French and the British who fought their way into Basque Country by sea. (They appear never to have left.) The foreboding mood continues as we visit the gothic cathedral, shelter from rain over a long lunch involving beets and mackerel, and tour the local aquarium, the first half of which is a historical exhibit on Basque seafaring and fishing in these choppy waters instead of the expected tanks of fish. By the time we emerge, some stray sunlight casts a delicate glow, and we can stroll the promenade along La Concha again. Over in Gros, the surfers are all over the big waves thrown up by the sea. An inky dark squid seems an appropriate entrée at Bodegón Alejandro, a first-rate basement restaurant in the Parte Vieja, and we stroll a little and take that nightcap one last time.

San Sebastián could just be a dream state place, one that gives of endless days on a beach and climbing hills and long dinners and drinks among friends. And yet it still has history, still has some semblance of a local consciousness even under the crush of tourists. The final day showed a depth that eternal Caribbean bliss cannot muster, gave me new appreciation for those November gale days back in my own similarly sized hometown back in northern Minnesota. Seeing San Sebastián even makes me wonder a little more about what Duluth could yet be. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden.

Part four is here.

Spain 2025, Part II: Basque-ing in Finery

This is the second in a four-part series. Part One is here.

Northeast of Burgos the Spanish countryside grows more picturesque. My train cuts through passes in granite crags with old cities clinging to hillsides, all robed in fog on this wet day. The train slows for twists through thick trees and night swallows the scene quickly. A weird new language I cannot understand at all joins Spanish and English in the train’s announcements. I am approaching my destination: Basque Country, the Euskal Herria, the autonomous community on Spain’s northern coast and along the border with France, at the elbow of the Bay of Biscay. I’ve previously knocked out two of Spain’s regions with their own languages and complicated histories with Madrid (Galicia and Catalonia), but the Basques are in a league of their own, their mother tongue bearing no relation to later-arriving Romance languages and their separatism punctuated by violent militancy well into this century. In the far north they have carved out a state with immense national pride, Spanish flags almost universally replaced by the red, white, and green of the Basques. It is here that my friend Andrew and I have chosen to spend some time exploring in May.

Northern Spain is not the stereotype of dusty windmill-strewn plains nor of Moorish architecture nor an excess of loud British tourists chasing some cheap sun, though they are still around. It is a lush, wet land, its regions relatively small in area, cut off from much of the rest of Spain by a wall of mountains. The Moorish advances trickled out here, and the Reconquista began in places like Asturias and Cantabria and Northern Castilla y León. By Spanish standards the north is relatively affluent, the birthplace of several national banking giants and home to a respectable industrial base and such darlings of local control as the Mondragón Cooperative. And while there is good food everywhere in Spain, Basque Country is its peak.

The Basque cultural capital is Bilbao, a metro of one million and in many respects an ideal type European city: tight winding historic old town, newer grand promenades, a famous museum, a fancy old train station, a gaudy new soccer stadium, apartment blocks in rings around the cool stuff, a few discordant office towers, and a river winding through the middle. Its twist is the national pride for a nation that spent long parts of history hidden away in these rugged hills along the sea, speaking their obscure tongue punctuated Xs and Ks and Zs and Ts. (Andrew and I are curious to see the point values in Basque Scrabble.) While Spanish remains the dominant tongue, Basque is present, from a dignified group of elderly diners at the nicest restaurant we visit to a flock of teenagers slurping Aperol spritzes on the patio where I grab a late-night snack upon my arrival. The rebellion against the crown continues, subtle but persistent.

Our hotel sits on the Albiako Lorategiak, a placid square whose towering sycamores rise high above our fourth-floor balcony. Andrew misses a connection from Madrid to Bilbao (he spends his delay at the Prado, the poor soul), so I go back to my wandering routine on the grey, drippy sort of day that is common here in the Euskal Herria. I stroll the Gran Vía and meander the tight streets of the Casco Viejo, grab a pintxos (Basque tapas) lunch, ascend to a basilica on a hill. The city is in the preparation stages for a British onslaught, as Manchester United and Tottenham Hotspur will meet here in a week for the Europa League final; soccer balls dot the city, and a new wrap is going up on the sparkling San Mamés stadium. On the way down from the basilica I lose myself briefly in apartment block Spain, that dense, urban reality that is more representative of contemporary Spanish life than a tapas crawl on a historic street. In the US this sort of neighborhood would prompt some nervous looks from outsiders, but here it just feels like a normal Thursday afternoon. Kids pour out of a school, people reel in the laundry from beneath their umbrella-covered hanging spots out the window. The shops are a bit grittier but the fundamentals of Spanish urban life are unchanged.

When Andrew arrives, the pintxos tour begins in earnest. We nail our first two stops, octopus at Gure Toki and mussels with good wine at Taska Beltz. There is quality craft beer at La Ley Seca, a mediocre Mahou to end the night on a pedestrian street a block from the hotel. It continues the next day with breakfast at the Café Iruña with its stunning Moorish interior, lunch at the vast Erriberako market, more good beer at Bihotz, and a dinner at Casa Rufo that slowly builds: white asparagus from Navarra, a well-salted cod, a gaudy steak, and a divine Manchego cheesecake for dessert.

Bilbao’s great attraction is the Guggenheim Museum, the striking Frank Gehry-designed eruption of molten titanium lava flows that takes on to the shifting moods of Basque Country weather. The tour starts on the outside along the riverfront promenade, with Anish Kapoor’s giant pile of reflective balls and a giant spider (its effect somewhat reduced by the crews buffing it on the day we visit) and a towering flowery puppy by Jeff Koons. The titanium-clad exterior somehow turns to an airy glass interior, cavernous and at times vertiginous on its catwalks, able to hold ten thousand French schoolchildren with ease. Its three immersive exhibits are its best, and it wins me immediately with Richard Serra’s The Matter of Time, a series of giant pieces of iron that invite exploration as if they were a series of southwestern slot canyons. Next is Yayoi Kusama’s Infinity Mirrored Room, a trippy house of mirrors and flashing lights meant to invoke the artist’s hallucinations. Finally there is Refik Anadol’s in situ, a room covered in a nonstop flow of AI-generated images of Frank Gehry architecture and its influences that occasionally hallucinates and goes wrong. Beyond that there is a collection of modern art’s greatest hits: a Warhol, another Koons, some de Koonigs, none of which are my cup of tea but are welcome enough as a summation of a movement. (The one I do enjoy: Cy Twombly’s nine-part descent of Emperor Commodus into insanity.) An exhibit on the Brazilian painter Tarsila do Amaral also opens new worlds, a blend of modernism and Cubism and Brazilian color. The Guggenheim is a triumph of urban renewal, a peak many cities chase but achieved successfully by Basque leadership that saw the creation of monuments like this, not just another European micro-state, as the path forward.

We rent a car for a day to drive the coast from Bilbao to San Sebastián, guided by a Siri whose command of Basque leaves something to be desired. The trip is just over an hour by freeway but over three and a half by our route, and while Siri takes us on a few rides, our road is well worth the time it takes. Our first stop is Gaztelugatxe, a medieval monastery and the site of Dragonstone in Game of Thrones, sitting alone atop a rocky isle just off a sloping cliff, its caves withholding any sign of fiery priestesses. We pass through little surfing towns like Bakio and Bermeo and Mundaka, and the coastline evokes Big Sur, complete with the road washouts requiring detours; this, I think, is what the California coast could have felt like several decades back, before history overtook California. It is stunning country, beautiful but not overpopulated, issuing a summons to stop and explore each small town, if one can possibly find any parking. Perhaps it is better that they do not build more.

A quick turn inland takes us to Guernica, the spiritual center of the Basque Country, home to a meeting hall for their centuries-old republic (admired by John Adams as he studied forms of government for the United States) and the oak tree beneath which the province of Vizcaya still gathers to elect its ceremonial leader. This history is part of why Francisco Franco and his Nazi allies selected it in 1937 as a test run for the first carpet bombing of a town, though the oak tree (and the actual military targets, like an arms factory and a bridge) withstood the bombing while the city center went up in flames. Today, Guernica is a bustling, pleasant town with regular reminders of a dark past, and the Peace Museum gives eyewitness accounts of the devastation, ponders questions of what exactly peace means. As anyone with a memory of Guernica’s carnage passes out of time, I wonder how well a world increasingly interested in reviving great historical struggles will remember its lessons. We are left with some museums and one raw, great Picasso to help tell the tale of what that era’s escalations wrought.

After Guernica it is back to the coast, back to weaving roads through maritime pine and eucalyptus, my steering wheel hands and break pedal foot growing sore. Ondarroa makes me gawk. We stop off at a beach sliced up by Flysch, sharp cuts of sheer sedimentary rock near where tectonic plates met at some point in time. The beach here in Zumaia is populated entirely by locals, blissed out on the Basque coast. Next we curve over to Getaria, a fishing town on a narrow finger of a peninsula, though we have mistimed its fine food scene. Driving up a coast never grows old, I say to Andrew, and as we turn toward San Sebastián I understand why the Basques cherish their homeland so much.

Part 3 is here.

Spain 2025, Part I: History’s Greatest Urbanists

This is the first in a four-part series. Part 2 | Part 3 | Part 4

Being out in big surf is dreamlike. Terror and ecstasy ebb and flow around the edges of things, each threatening to overwhelm the dreamer. An unearthly beauty saturates an enormous arena of moving water, latent violence, too-real explosions, and sky. Scenes feel mythic even as they unfold. I always feel a ferocious ambivalence. I want to be nowhere else; I want to be anywhere else. I want to drift and gaze, drinking it in, except maximum vigilance, a hyperalertness to what the ocean is doing, cannot be relaxed. Big surf (the term is relative, of course—what I find life-threatening, the next hellman may find entirely manageable) is a force field that dwarfs you, and you survive your time there only by reading those forces carefully and well. But the ecstasy of actually riding big waves requires placing yourself right beside the terror of being buried by them: the filament separating the two states becomes diaphanous. Dumb luck weighs heavily, painfully. And when things go badly, as they inevitably do—when you’re caught inside a very large wave, or fail to make one—all your skill and strength and judgment mean nothing. Nobody maintains their dignity while getting rumbled by a big wave. The only thing you can hope to control at that point is the panic.

-William Finnegan, Barbarian Days (Against Dereliction)

On my recent trip to Spain I spent a little time mesmerized by the skilled surfers off Zurriola Beach in San Sebastián. Old friends and readers of my writing will know surfing can enrapture me, inspire words that go far beyond the exploits of a beach bum on a board. It is a feeling known to anyone who has ever given himself over to something beyond him.

The passage above, while less immediate in its death-daring fear, approximates the dream state I enter when exploring a European city on foot. I feel it all deeply, want to wander without a map, one with thousands of forces that flow of their own accord to weave together into the fabric of an urban life. Gifted thirty jetlagged hours in Madrid at the start of my trip, I pick out one museum for a visit, but I am mostly here to wander and explore.

Madrid is a city of seven million people, and yet most of its great monuments are reachable by foot. The Plaza Mayor and the Puerta del Sol are the humming hearts of the city; down the Gran Vía and Calle Alcalá, luxury brands take up shop in ornate buildings, a pastiche of revival and art deco architecture. On the west end sit the monumental palace and cathedral, while a series of arches in traffic circles (puertas and glorietas in Spanish, far more melodious) ring the entrances to the city center. To the east and southeast are the great museums, the Prado and the Reina Sofia and the Thyssen-Bornemisza. Great green spaces bookend the Centro, the sprawling Parque del Buen Retiro to the east and the lush Campo del Moro below the palace to the west. Strewn between are neighborhoods of life and culture and history, La Latina and Letras and Chueca, plazas dotting them to open up the narrow streets and give people places to settle at tables for a drink or a bite. Fountains flow and statues stand guard and that central Spanish sun beats down on the scene.

And so I re-immerse myself in that Spanish urban rhythm. I revisit a good brewery here and a fun restaurant there from my previous visit. I pause to read sign boards and take unexpected turns when piqued, and I sit in some churches and gaze upward in awe. In the Plaza Mayor, a stage has been set up and trucks are unloading kegs for the celebration of the Feast of San Isidro, which I will miss by one day. In the Puerta del Sol, lit up for the night, I sit for a spell and feel the rush of freedom that comes at the start of a new great trip, enchanted by what the Madrileños have designed here.

The Spanish are, after all, history’s greatest urban planners. It is difficult to find any Spanish town, no matter how godforsaken, without a walkable grid at its core and a pleasing central square and a couple appropriately scaled monuments: a church, a government building, some statues or fountains. Small, specialized shops are everywhere, selling food and technology and books (so many bookstores!) and just about any basic need within an easy walk of home. They make ample use of arcades, a superb and underused design feature, especially in hot or wet climates. Their housing is dense but not overcrowded; the apartment blocks in the suburbs, while not aesthetically pleasing, provide ample housing and are well-connected into the city.

These characteristics are not uncommon across Europe, but Spanish innovations endure. Whatever else one may say about their colonial exploits in the Americas, the Spanish did very intentionally export their urban form over the better part of two continents, and those plazas and zocalos will live on from Buenos Aires to Santa Barbara long after anything Bob Moses built gets replaced and the high modernists get consigned to the museums where they belong. More recently, the Spanish have built a train system that is the envy of the Western world, high-speed AVEs flying about, full lines built for the cost it takes to lay three ties on the California High-Speed Rail project; in Barcelona, the subway arrival time boards count down to the second. When I recently heard a joking proposal that we fire all train planners in the United States and replace them with Spaniards, I found myself nodding in solemn approval.

Besides the timeless aesthetics, Spanish cities understand something about human nature. An innate curiosity to peek around a corner, slip down an alley, emerge into a square. A simultaneous desire for order and ornament, a stable foundation topped by some of the flair that makes life fun. Spaces where adults can sit at tables and talk while the youths gather in another corner and younger kids can just dart about, all free to intermix while also carving their own little spheres. Spaces for God and spaces for hedonism; spaces for government and dim alleys to escape it. Meals are a progressive feast, small plates to escape gluttony, a free bite with every drink. Spanish city centers are a pleasure to stroll through, a pleasure to linger in, the place everyone wants to hang out instead of alone in little boxes every night.

My visit to the Reina Sofía modern art museum confirms my belief in Spanish urban thinking. How, exactly, does an art museum reflect values in city planning? Well, in it, I find a healthy heap of the original versions of designs I remember from introductory urban planning texts, from Garden City drawings to Le Corbusier’s schemes, along with plans for Madrid and Barcelona that seek to update these great old cities with grids that can sustain modern living. In a museum with relatively few non-Spanish works, the curators have seen fit to collect some of the most iconic pieces in the history of the field, show how their country then took those ideals and adapted them to their own towns. For the Spanish, urban planning is an art, worthy of its own wing just down the hall from Guernica.

Like its more classically inclined compatriot, the Prado, the Reina Sofía largely leaves out anyone who is not either from the country or in some way tied up in its history or artistic movements. Picasso and Dalí take center stage, but here also are Joan Miró and Juan Gris and adjacent surrealists who made the art world churn in the early 20th century. The temporary exhibitions include the funky sound artist Laia Estruch, a reasonably well curated collection of art attempting to subvert narratives associated with Spain’s colonial history (here I am pleasantly surprised to find art and video from a Mexican Zapatista community I have visited), and a painter named Huguette Caland with no obvious tie to the country who does hold the attention, sitting at an intersection somewhere between Picasso and Georgia O’Keefe, with the occasional sprinkle from the Middle East.

After my museum visit and a leisurely lunch on the Plaza Tirso de Molina a few blocks from my hotel, I head for Chamartín train station to get a taste of that great train system. It runs like clockwork, trains humming out every few minutes, and this isn’t even the busiest station in Madrid. The train I take rockets north, through tunnels under the Sierra Central and across the savannas of Castilla y León. The rain falls steadily on my train across the Spanish plain, through Segovia and Valladolid and Burgos and the smaller farming towns between them. The cities feature large industrial parks and larger apartment blocks, a somewhat bleak Spanish heartland.

When seen by train Spain feels like it is in a different stage of development, still suspended in an agricultural and industrial state instead of deep in the knowledge economy. In some ways this does not feel like a terrible tradeoff, with less job disruption and a healthier small business sector, with fewer basement-wage service jobs and a step of removal from the tech obsession and paranoia now gripping American culture. The only things that hurtle at maximum velocity here are the trains.

Still, it is a tradeoff: prior to the Great Recession, wealth in Western Europe’s leading economies (of which Spain is not really one) was basically on par with the United States. Now, American GDP growth has left Europe in the dust over recent years. Coming out of the recession, Angela Merkel’s Germany imposed bad austerity economics on the continent while the U.S. gave its economy some halting stimulus, and already higher energy prices have since been exacerbated by the war in Ukraine. Tech has been an engine of American growth, while Europe has maintained a skepticism of that whole push. Throw in a strong dollar and it’s easy for an American to feel relatively affluent in Europe: even with some exchange rate rebalancing amid a trade war, prices on most things still feel like a bargain, especially since Europe eschews the absurdity of tip inflation. Real estate in downtown Madrid is expensive, but under conventional American loan terms I could make a play at it with my current salary if I really wanted to. Doing the same in New York or Washington would be laughable.

There are still many reasons, some empirical and some subjective, to prefer European choices over the American growth-at-all-costs machine. But there are serious long-term implications for that widening income gap and what it will take to sustain those European welfare states. What the economy gains in preservation of the past, it can lose in any sense of dynamism; youth unemployment is an actual thing here. A loud soccer bro on his phone two rows behind me on the train, speaking in a Gen Z English punctuated by an appropriate number of fucks and bros, thinks his future is elsewhere. The question looms: how next will the Spaniards reinvent their cities and networks to meet the world they now live in?

Part 2 is here.

Maloney Sketches

I.

Red pines on a slope down to a rippling lake, a carpet of needles and fallen leaves, gentle hiss of the wind. Down at the dock a fisherman comes in, catch and release, cling to the moment while you can. Light glows out from the windows, loud laughs, clinking of glass. Cards dealt, happy hour announced, the Cubs or college football somewhere behind the scene. A venture up the winding drive to the field across the road, stars strewn across the sky. Now, ashes strewn here as well, here to join the few my mom and I scattered in our final visit before the place sold, guarded by a heart-shaped stone. The place is not ours now but it always will be, one final rest for some and now for others a reason for living, living to create that warm glow again and again.

II.

A sun-splashed morning in Irving Park. Sip the coffee or tea, come awake, run the streets or stroll the 606 or the lakefront, resplendent in the golden end of a false fall. At the end of each venture is a delectable meal, worth any slow crawl down big city grids or backup on the freeway. Back to the house. A satisfying creak to hardwood floors beneath feet, shelves filled with books and walls lined with Boteros and creepy doll heads, the vinyl crackling in the background. Baseball on the TV with Uncle Mike, chewing on the contradiction that is Chicago with Aunt Chris, tales of travels past and to come.

Return in winter and a fire crackles, cookie trays stocked and bottles up from the cellar. Halloween displays turned to Christmas lights, baseball replaced by the masochism that is the Chicago Bears. A dusting of snow, cold wind up grey blocks, a hot cider from Aunt Chris for the circuit of the neighborhood. Even in the bleakest season it sparkles, and this is the sort of place I want to make for myself someday, long a vague future that now starts to feel closer, within my reach.

III.

Thanksgiving in the suburbs. Adventure tales and political hot takes with Uncle Chuck, chatter over wine into the night with Aunt Monica. Carb-loading for the 5K, our runner ranks swelling as we jockey our way down the streets of Downers Grove. Temptation in the form of bacon and bloody marys, but once was enough for those mistakes mid-run. Fight across the finish line, collect the fellow runners, back to the house to see the splits from year to year. The chefs arrive, dinner down to an art; stand around, chip in where you can, inevitably end up in front of the kitchen implement they most need. More of us now gather here than anywhere. Dine, drink, lay about on a couch; perhaps euchre will break out. The late night crowd retreats to the basement but it is no longer a long party, just a gentle trickle until the lights go down.

The next night the rotunda at the Museum of Science and Industry is ours. A reception for Jim and Mo, fit for the couple, the groom in his element in the James Bond exhibits open for us to explore. Rob, Becca, and I scheme the next spring’s cousins weekend as we cruise down Lakeshore Drive, the towers of downtown lit up in that reassuring glow. We are all children of this city, even if we have never lived here.

IV.

Christmas on the South Side. The car takes a ding on the Dan Ryan but the precious cargo is safe, Quality Control can proceed as planned, Uncle Mike in command of his classroom as we sample this year’s lineup. Uncle John and Aunt Reen’s massive operation takes shape, trays of meat and jars of cookies, lights lining every meeting between wall and ceiling. A pause and then the burst: weave through the maze of humanity that pours in, a steady flow to capacity, some I’ve known since time immemorial and some rookies for this rite, and some faces I only see once a year but always reliably here. Stand in the wine room and you will be scolded but everyone will see you as they come by, great each, recommend a favorite or two. The dinner bell rings and Uncle John commands us to the tables. We toast to generations past as a new one runs around at our feet. Tony sits at the piano and Luke conducts the choir and the songbooks make their way around the house. Bibs and Merih master the Brandy Alexanders and the we rouse the whole neighborhood with “The Twelve Days of Christmas.”

The tenor of the night starts to shift. Big Steve holds court in the back room over port and stinky cheese, and now Frank takes requests on the guitar and Bibs is on vocals and the crowd slowly thins. Out come cigars and bourbon. For some this night will go deep but for me the car is here and I am headed back to Irving Park, into a wine-swaddled reverie, a ritual that is now the living embodiment of my own Christmas story.

V.

This time in Duluth. None of the 11 in my generation who descend this weekend have come as adults, to say nothing of their children. My worries about Duluth April fall away: of course the city shows out with a glorious weekend, casts its spell with sun-kissed ridgelines and whispers of green and the deep blue lake. We rent a labyrinthine Congdon beauty large enough to hold us, split among its little dollhouse rooms: a pack in the kitchen, always someone eating in the dining room, a few tucked into the lovers’ nook; John at the piano in the parlor as the next generation streaks through with lasers blaring. A crew slips down into the ravine where evergreens cling to red rock and Tischer Creek arcs its way down toward Superior below. Yes, this is what I have right outside my door, just one of many ribbons of beauty lain down this graceful ridge.

Finally I can return the favor to Rob, a night of bar-hopping and dips into a few of Duluth’s better gems, my pace turned up into that flow state where it reaches the performance zone of a distance athlete. A whole group bookstore invasion, a ridgetop stroll, some toodles about town and then a long drift into the night, musical roulette in the sunroom, a log on the fire and wine passed down the row and a ten-minute walk for me at one in the morning, a stop to gaze at stars as I head back home. Wake in the morning and Matt and Kathryn and Becca are in my living room, a little corner of quiet away from the din over on Hawthorne where we can spin a globe and tell of ventures outward, a new love and a renewed freedom, appreciation swelling at how much more these trips can mean when they come at the end of a long tunnel when they did not feel possible.

Each of us takes our turn, no one person ever central. Laura gets an education on Upper Midwest lingo while Molly and Katie are now fully part of the adult crew. David serves the wine and Paul runs the pizza operation and Megan blends worlds with an old friend two doors down. Liam takes a turn as the Zenith Bookstore social media star, Jack is in full sprint along Skyline at the end of the hike, Emma smashes the competition at the hook and ring game, and Luke, being raised right, can carry on a good conversation about baseball.

My dad, back in this picture for the first time in nearly two decades, joins us for an evening in Lakeside. We fill in the missing years, run through memories of our grandparents’ houses, weave our own corners of this great tapestry we share. Everything mixes here and the weekend unites two loves, my city and my sprawling family, dives into a past that was and steadily builds a certainty that we will keep this energy going year after year, pass it on into futures unknown. This thing we have built, it speaks to me, tells me of belonging on some deep, primal level beyond the reach of the rational mind. It is home.

Conversation in the Cathedral

I don’t think I have ever felt compelled to re-post a previous post on here, but right now, I am going to re-post the content of this one, which is in itself mostly just an extended quote from the 2010 acceptance speech for the Nobel Prize in literature. Farewell, Mario Vargas Llosa, one of the true giants of world literature, and one who inspired my own writing life immensely.

Literature is a false representation of life that nevertheless helps us to understand life better, to orient ourselves in the labyrinth where we are born, pass by, and die. It compensates for the reversals and frustrations real life inflicts on us, and because of it we can decipher, at least partially, the hieroglyphic that existence tends to be for the great majority of human beings, principally those of us who generate more doubts than certainties and confess our perplexity before subjects like transcendence, individual and collective destiny, the soul, the sense or senselessness of history, the to and fro of rational knowledge.

I have always been fascinated to imagine the uncertain circumstance in which our ancestors – still barely different from animals, the language that allowed them to communicate with one another just recently born – in caves, around fires, on nights seething with the menace of lightning bolts, thunder claps, and growling beasts, began to invent and tell stories. That was the crucial moment in our destiny, because in those circles of primitive beings held by the voice and fantasy of the storyteller, civilization began, the long passage that gradually would humanize us and lead us to invent the autonomous individual, then disengage him from the tribe, devise science, the arts, law, freedom, and to scrutinize the innermost recesses of nature, the human body, space, and travel to the stars. Those tales, fables, myths, legends that resounded for the first time like new music before listeners intimidated by the mysteries and perils of a world where everything was unknown and dangerous, must have been a cool bath, a quiet pool for those spirits always on the alert, for whom existing meant barely eating, taking shelter from the elements, killing, and fornicating. From the time they began to dream collectively, to share their dreams, instigated by storytellers, they ceased to be tied to the treadmill of survival, a vortex of brutalizing tasks, and their life became dream, pleasure, fantasy, and a revolutionary plan: to break out of confinement and change and improve, a struggle to appease the desires and ambitions that stirred imagined lives in them, and the curiosity to clear away the mysteries that filled their surroundings.

This never-interrupted process was enriched when writing was born and stories, in addition to being heard, could be read, achieving the permanence literature confers on them. That is why this must be repeated incessantly until new generations are convinced of it: fiction is more than an entertainment, more than an intellectual exercise that sharpens one’s sensibility and awakens a critical spirit. It is an absolute necessity so that civilization continues to exist, renewing and preserving in us the best of what is human. So that we do not retreat into the savagery of isolation and life is not reduced to the pragmatism of specialists who see things profoundly but ignore what surrounds, precedes, and continues those things. So that we do not move from having the machines we invent serve us to being their servants and slaves. And because a world without literature would be a world without desires or ideals or irreverence, a world of automatons deprived of what makes the human being really human: the capacity to move out of oneself and into another, into others, modeled with the clay of our dreams.

From the cave to the skyscraper, from the club to weapons of mass destruction, from the tautological life of the tribe to the era of globalization, the fictions of literature have multiplied human experiences, preventing us from succumbing to lethargy, self-absorption, resignation. Nothing has sown so much disquiet, so disturbed our imagination and our desires as the life of lies we add, thanks to literature, to the one we have, so we can be protagonists in the great adventures, the great passions real life will never give us. The lies of literature become truths through us, the readers transformed, infected with longings and, through the fault of fiction, permanently questioning a mediocre reality. Sorcery, when literature offers us the hope of having what we do not have, being what we are not, acceding to that impossible existence where like pagan gods we feel mortal and eternal at the same time, that introduces into our spirits non-conformity and rebellion, which are behind all the heroic deeds that have contributed to the reduction of violence in human relationships. Reducing violence, not ending it. Because ours will always be, fortunately, an unfinished story. That is why we have to continue dreaming, reading, and writing, the most effective way we have found to alleviate our mortal condition, to defeat the corrosion of time, and to transform the impossible into possibility.

Not bad inspiration for someone who has felt a surge of fictional inspiration in the past few weeks.